Years ago, it was customary for bridesmaids to wear identical dresses. This has changed over time and, today, mismatched bridesmaid dresses are a growing trend. Over time, however, we have noticed some good and some not-so-good results. When considering this option for your big day, it’s helpful to bear these guidelines in mind.
Length
While various aspects of the dresses will differ, you should keep the length of the dresses the same. When the dresses have different lengths, they don’t create a desirable look. So, whether full-length or shorter, make sure that you get your girls to attend each fitting together. This way you can see them all side by side and changes can be made if necessary.
Select variations
Choose the features that you want to alter very carefully. You should only choose one or two features that differ from dress to dress. These can include the type of straps, the neckline, accents, and even the color. Sometimes fabric variations can also look wonderful. When you change more that two features of the dress, it will make them too different, and you won’t create the desired effect.
Colors
There are two main options when it comes to colors. You can use dresses of the same color, but different styles or you can choose dresses with the same style by different colors. When choosing different colors, it’s import to make sure that they look good together and compliment the wedding theme. If you are having your dresses made, you will need to place different fabrics side by side to make sure that they look good together. If you are renting or buying off the rack, you should place the ready-made dresses next to each other. When ready, get your bridesmaids in for a fitting so that you can get the full picture. This way, if any changes need to be made, it can be done with more than enough time to spare.
Take charge
Some brides allow their bridesmaids to shop for their own dress is a particular color. This is not advisable since you don’t know what style or color shade they will find. It’s best to source all of your dresses from one vendor or dressmaker. This will help maintain a more consistent appearance. When you offer them choices, do so with caution. When faced with too many decisions, we tend to become even more indecisive. Limit their options to avoid complications and to ensure that you get everything done on time.
Always remember that this is your big day, and your bridesmaids are there to look good and support you – not steal the show. This is why bridesmaid dresses are understated compared to the bride’s gown. You want them to look good and fashionable of course. You wouldn’t want everyone to cringe when they see the pictures again after a few years! That said, some people do their bridesmaid dress shopping with the idea that they can find a dress that can be worn again and again. Bridesmaids will usually hold on to their dresses for years, but this does not mean that they will wear it again! Imagine wearing an old bridesmaid dress to a fancy dinner only to have a friend or relative point out that they remember that dress from the wedding! In short, choose what you like and a suitable style that will compliment your wedding.
At BeWed, we have a comprehensive list of Toronto bridal wear vendors that will have all your bridesmaids perfectly coordinated!
